Anxiety recovery is salty

Healing is a messy journey. Often I find myself reacting to some past hurt, and bleeding on the current joys of life.  In a romantic relationship, it is very important for me to feel connected to the person. Even when the intimacy of the relationship by itself doesn’t demand that we speak to each other…

A little about self-worth

People can often tell you rich, complex stories about their lives. And they can be labeled as lies. In the strict morality of black and white, they are black. They are lies. They are the stories that people tell themselves and others, which could potentially/ plausibly be the stories of their lives if they did…

Self Worth doesn’t need external validation. Here’s why.

A lot of people don’t look at you the way you look at them. These could be the ones closest to you too. It could be a parent, a sibling, a significant other, a best friend. They don’t see you in the light that you see yourself. And that’s okay. It makes you feel anguished,…

This Valentine’s – Choose Yourself

It takes a huge amount of self love to be worthy of the love that you think you deserve. One act of self love can turn the wheels of fortune in your favour. But like with most things that are worth it, this isn’t easy. Self love isn’t easy. To begin with it needs a…

The Dinner Date

We met each other at Chili’s. Just looking at him warmed something inside of me. It was only the 3rd time that we were meeting each other. After a chaste peck on the lips he sat down opposite me. I was both grateful for the distance and upset by it. Dinner was good. He had…

Relationships are so much work.

Relationships are so much work. You’ve got to listen To understand To care To speak with love And then do it all over again. In between all that, There are those “I am crazy about you” moments. When you feel that this. This is what the universe had been planning for you. That kiss. That…

How does it matter?

I love you. You can say as many times. It means nothing. If you don’t do anything about it.

Of Love and Loving

Love will come, because it will. Love will cherish you. Call you precious. Love will love you. Love will hurt you, but it will not mean to. Love will hold you, warm you. Fight you and let you. Love will ask “who are you” And then will find the answer with you.

Did you wake up like this?

Did you wake up like this this? Was skinny jeans and crop tops really your thing? That mascara and ruby red, is that really you? Or are you hidden behind the cellulite That beautiful bountiful heart of yours When it goes out to another who’s being judged for fat arms But stays silent because only…

Love- is simple?

You play with my hair, and my soul starts to sing; You brush away a tiny bit of food from the corner of my mouth, and I can barely wait to put mine on yours; You take in my cold feet at night, warming them with that look in your eye; When I run my…